Friday, June 28, 2019

ONE YEAR! Full Hearts, Full House and Fullness of blessings!-- June 27, 2019

   
Our One YEAR mark today--in Taitung w/ Hualien ZLs Elders Nader and Cheung
Dear Family and Friends,
It's been one year!  What a wonderful year to reflect upon --so many blessings of serving in such a beautiful place, with a rich culture of tradition of family, good will and many with an open heart to the gospel.  The church is growing here and there are about 80,000 members strong in Taiwan.  We currently have around 140 missionaries (soon to reduce to 125) : 90 American,  29 Taiwanese, 15 Filipino, 1 Korean, 1 Brazilian, 1 Peruvian, 1 Australian, 1 Canadian, 1 Italian and 1 New Zealander. About a third of our missionaries are sisters. No matter where they are from, they bring such a brightness of faith and testimony and unique gifts of the spirit.  We feel we have the best missionaries in all the world and that as Elder Homer told us "it's always a great day to be a missionary in Taipei" or anywhere throughout the Taiwan Taipei Mission.  Every day we feel so privileged to get to serve in this capacity  in such a beautiful place in every way with the most incredible missionaries in the world!

Sealing Day in Taipei! Mr & Mrs. Chandler Bruce!

We are Still rejoicing over our new son in law! Yes Chandler Bruce and our daughter Anne got married!!! Look at this darling pair! My heart is so full with gratitude for the blessings I have received these past several months that I told Mike that I don't feel I can ask for one more blessing for a very long time.  I am truly grateful for the health and safety the Lord blessed us with as a family and for the Bruce family to all be together in the Taipei temple for Anne and Chandler's sealing on May 10th.   I was so touched by Chandler and Anne's willingness to come to us in Taiwan as well as our family and the Bruce family's willingness to make that huge sacrifice.  We could never have asked that of any of them, but they willingly chose to do it for our benefit for which we will be forever grateful   It was such a miracle that all  traveled safely and were well--even with jetlag! This was the subject of many months of prayer.  Getting everyone here safely and everyone be well enough to enjoy it.
Family fun sending off lanterns at Pingxi


Hiking Xiangshan Mountain



We hit the ground running with climbing Xiangshan mountain, walking thru Dongmen market, a day trip to Pingxi, eating juabings and cocos and other favorite eats! The most fun was the wedding musical the night before the sealing which all the family participated in at the gorgeous dinner our friends, Brent and Brenda Christensen held for us at their beautiful apartment at "the Palace".  Their  AIT chef Claire made a delicious feast of roasted chicken and mashed potatoes and roasted vegetables and Brenda made homemade rolls! It was all scrumptious.  Then each sibling and the parents gave a short toast/words of love as we went around the table and talked about how much we love Anne and Chandler.  That was priceless. I was so touched by each tribute said and the love felt in the room.  And we hadn't even gotten to the musical--MulAnne!That was touching and funny too! It began with all the Chinese connections Anne has had since birth--her being told she was adopted from China when she was 18 mo old (we had taken all the kids except her on a Beijing trip), Spencer's nickname for Anne of "Ching Chong Cheesy" since she was a baby, her randomly having all Chinese names come up on her first trip to the temple to do Baptisms after family names, Matthew teased her that her Chinese ancestors were counting on her!) and her working at a Chinese take out  as a delivery girl in high school.  The stories in the musical were provided by the mothers and then the lyrics of the Mulan songs were changed to fit their story.  Anne and Chandler were great sports--even being willing to wear a Chinese hat (Chan) and a double happiness veil (Anne) throughout.  Thank you to my incredible sisters as this was such a fun way to get to know each other and to laugh together and cry together too as we felt such love for these two amazing people who are now grown up and leaving the nest! My personal favorite Fun Facts about Chandler were that there is an award in his high school called the Chandler Bruce award that they now give for those who have a good attitude and hard work ethic and that he has a strong dislike for pumpernickle bread which he announced loudly as a little boy when he thought it was being served for the Sacrament bread! haha. What an amazing guy! And what a joyous and tender evening it was.  Another Highlight was playing for Mike while he sang his "Reflections" to Anne as she has grown and is now a bride...Mike and I cried writing the words to that song and I cried hearing Mike sing it!  (cue Mulan "Reflections" music..)
"Look at you, all at once time's past and you're now all grown
Where's my little daughter? Dancing 'round, singing songs on your gui-tar--
Used to be, you would write sweet songs to the ONE you'd love, And you'd wish upon a star!
Who is that girl I'd SING, ev'ry night, fast to sleep,
When did all those years of "Daddy's Girls" go by?
Somehow I can not hide tears tonight, tho' I'll try
Now as I "reflect" up-on, how you've grown inside...
Look at you, all at once time's past and you're now a bride, such a lovely daughter
Can it be, a new man has won your heart?
But we see, that with him you truly can be yourself
And you've found your better-er part!
Who is that bride we see, look-ing into eternity?
Temple blessings now reflecting in your view?
My prayer for you each night, as you hold each other tight,
Is that you'll reflect God's love--share your love soo bright!
May your lives reflect the love, that you FEEL tonight!


  On the next morning, I  drove Anne with Gma Win to get their hair done, picked up homemade heart sugar cookies from the Beck family (bless them!) for the occasion of our wedding luncheon at our apartment for our wedding party including our dear sealer --Elder Peter and Maxine Meurs of our Area Presidency-- and then raced over to the florist to pick up all the wedding flowers!  I was so blessed to be able to find my way to all
these places  IN THE CAR DRIVING solo without Mike!  That's a miracle I tell you! He was back at the house getting all the fruit cut up and the food ready--we had boudze and fried rice and amazing fruit and then the yummy cookies for dessert!  It was such a miracle we all made it with the timing!  And here came the bride! Anne looked so beautiful!  Before we sat down to eat we  had the little granddaughters present (Rose, Millie and Charlotte) sing "I Love to see the Temple" and we literally could look out the window and see it as they sang! We also received a special gift of a water color of the Taipei temple, painted by aunt Amy Robinson!  What a special gift for all of us to enjoy!  The moment had arrived and I walked across the street with Anne and her dress and Chandler!  Surreal to see my baby as a bride! This sealing day had finally come!  As we sat in the temple together with the sealer--Elder Peter Meurs and his wife Maxine, Eddie and Win, Mike and I and each of our other children with their spouses, Chandler's parents Corey and Kirstin and his sisters, Brighton and Cambria, I felt such gratitude and joy. I knew this joy was a witness of God's plans for eternal families and that if we all keep on the covenant path we can be together forever with God one day.  I also realized in a powerful way that I wanted to share this joy--the message of eternal families and God's plan of happiness which Jesus Christ is central to--with everyone and all that I can.  This joy is not meant to be ours alone. This is why we and the other missionaries have left our families is to help others know how to have an eternal family and to know they have a Savior who can lift them from the darkness of sin. I'm so grateful for God's plan of Happiness and I know this is what our Savior paid such a huge price for--to provide the opportunity for each of us to be able to return to God's presence and be sealed as families.  This was a HEAVENLY moment I wanted to savor and always remember as a family and individually!

After the sealing and family pictures in front of the temple, Mike drove Anne and Chandler to the National Palace museum gardens for more pictures of them while the rest of us toured the 101 and then got ready and set up for the wedding dinner at the Grand Hotel.  This is a special spot for Taiwan as it is where an Apostle Mark E Petersen dedicated Taiwan for missionary work.  It will now hold another special place in our hearts after having Anne and Chandler's special wedding dinner there.  We were so blessed to have many of the stake presidents and their wives join us in celebrating and our Bishop and his wife and RS president and wife and a few other dear family friends we've made here.  We were all so joyous and so excited to get to introduce  our family to our "Taiwan family" and they were so wonderful to celebrate with us and congratulate Anne and Chandler.   It meant so much to us and I feel it was strengthening to our relationships with our associates and families we love here in Taiwan --especially as it is such a family oriented culture.     It was so touching and special to hear tributes from Lauren and Brighton --the two older sisters of the bride and groom and tributes from the Bruces as well as we gave ours.  We showed a slide show of the two growing up and set to music they grew up with and some songs Anne sang or wrote and sang as a little girl. (much to our joy but to her embarrassment!) but then Mike surprised her and all of us by singing a song he sang to all our children at bedtime "Daddy's little Girl" and old Mills Brothers song and then he had the pianist play it while he went over and asked Anne to dance!  How special that he got to dance with his daughter at her wedding and that he didn't have to miss that opportunity entirely.  He even dipped her at the end it was as if they'd rehearsed it!  Darling.  The highlight for me were the remarks of Anne and Chandler at the end of the wedding dinner and they will forever touch my heart..  Anne bore testimony that Marriage is of God and how through the events of her meeting Chandler and their courtship and all the arrangements of their marriage and sealing that she knew God knows us individually and knows our needs. She bore testimony Chandler was an answer to her prayers and who and what she needed--Chandler shared that one of the qualities mentioned in his patriarchal blessing was that she would be SWEET and that quality described Anne so well to him (Sigh!) He also shared that when he and Anne realized they were right for each other, they then had to discuss the big question of where and when should they be sealed?  There were three choices:  1) Wait three years for Shelley and Mike to return to the States? (Nope--can't wait that long!) 2) Go ahead and be married in the States without Mike--NO, they couldn't feel right about that 3) Go get married in Taiwan so Mike could attend.  And that was the end of the discussion as far as they were concerned .  (Crying emoji!  Could you be any sweeter?)  Once they decided on Taiwan, bless them, they never looked back nor wavered, though there were huge hurdles to surmount--and sacrifices made of having friends and all the family there. They have been so courageous and strong with all they had to do to be sealed in Taipei!!!
After the dinner we all lined the hall and front lobby and gave them a send off with Ribbon wands that Sister Bruce had made and they jumped into a black car that drove them back to Taipei. They went to Yong Kong in their wedding clothes and got a mango bing!  They also walked over to a Taipei tourist shop to get a souvenir Taiwan Island and the store owner insisted on buying it for them when she found out it was their wedding day!   You have to Ai Taiwan!

The next day the Bruce's flew back to the States (including the new Mr. and Mrs for their honeymoon) while the rest of us had some family fun at the beach in Fulong seeing the huge Sand Sculptures! (see pictures)

Before I left for Utah's reception I had a sweet surprise! It was the night before Mother's Day and I was busily packing to leave for Utah the next morning.  I got a text from Elder Smith and Elder Weber saying: "Sister Peterson we are working on a video we need you to come approve--it was true they were working on a new video for new missionaries that we had asked them to do and though I was busy and it was 9:50 at night and I was packing, I thought I better run down and support them because they were doing this for us! So I went down stairs to the office and the office elders and Aps were there and they said: "Sister Peterson will you come sit in this chair and watch the video for us? just push this button.  So I did and to my surprise it was a video of our missionaries--two by two saying "Happy Mother's Day Sister Peterson" thank you for all that you do or we love you, etc.  It was all I could do to keep from bawling!  I should have known something was up because of the cute little grins on their faces when I had walked into the office.  The fact that they would do that for me was truly incredible.  I felt so loved and warmed by their love and their kind words.  I love being a mission MOM!  I told them it wasn't fair because I couldn't hug them with my arms but I was  hugging them with my heart!  My cup ran over a bit down my cheeks too!  What a special Mother's Day gift, I will never forget!!!  Bless each and every missionary who took time to do that for me!  I felt so blessed to be able to be a MISSION MOM and have all these wonderful sons and daughters to love and  was so blessed to see two of them who have gone home and who stopped by Anne's reception in Utah.  The love that fills my heart when I'm with them is overwhelming..       (pic of me w Sister Amelia Phillips and Aleissa Love at reception)

It was such an answer to my prayers that I could be a mother and to enjoy this special time even though we were an ocean apart and in answer to that prayer we were blessed that all came together in such a lovely way and worked out after months of trying to plan everything as best we could from long distance and in a foreign place where I didn't know how to communicate or know where to go for flowers, hair, food, photography, etc.  We were blessed every inch of the way by friends who offered to help and or recommend vendors. To have a temple right across the street --how could we be more blessed?  Each detail, each help from others was a beautiful blessing, including the venue in Utah for Anne's reception. I was blessed to be able to "be a mom" while being a mission mom and return to Utah for their reception at Wadley Farms in Lindon.




I flew with Lauren Brandt and Grahammy back to Utah through Japan and Seattle. (see pic of us in airport w Graham)  It took me/us several days to overcome jet lag but every day we did a little bit and it all came together for all the wedding reception prep.  I am so grateful for Lauren and Brandt offering to let me stay with them and drive their car and house me so I could also spend every minute with them and w Baby Graham.  They were such a huge help and Lauren was an angel helping me at the reception as were my sisters and Chandler's mom and sisters.  I was so grateful for dear friends and family who came in support of Anne and Chandler and for me! and for Mike! Dear friends Debbie Bromley and Carol Brandi from Danville  FLEW in for it!  I cried!  I can't say a hundredth part of all the thanks I owe and the love I feel!  It turned out beyond what I had hoped!  A highlight was when Matthew and Clark danced with Anne when they did the Dad n Daughter dance.  Seeing them swoop her up and trade off with her was such a joy.  What darling big brothers!  Spencer was in Japan with his family or he would have been a third dance partner!  And even with the rain, the sparkler send off was perfect for this sparkly pair so starry eyed!  I did the happy dance once their  "just married" car drove off and away!   

A Bonus blessing was that the next day I was in town for Clark's 30th bday and their adorable little Lucy's baby blessing up in Park City.  Again--the blessings upon blessings! My cup runneth over with so much love for each of our children and their families! What a truly special day to witness that sweet blessing and feel part of that family occasion.  A week later we received a phone call from Clark who tearfully shared with us that he had been called to be the Bishop of the Manhattan YSA ward. He was most concerned about Ellee who would be without his help on Sundays.  Bless her for being willing to shoulder this call with him.  They will be amazing ward parents to these lucky YSA's and help their faith in Jesus Christ be strong! I know this will not be easy, but bring tremendous a blessings in their lives to serve in these capacities. 
Lucy Michelle Peterson's baby blessing in Park City Utah with all these wonderful bearers of the Priesthood in her family surrounding her. It was a beautiful blessing of love given by her Daddy Clark Eddie Peterson.  So grateful I could be there for this special event in our family!



The Lord continued to bless me upon my return to Taiwan because I had no time for jet lag! President M. Russell Ballard was coming for lunch and a mission tour with Elder and Sister Gay of the 70, (he had set me apart) Asia Area President, David F. Evans and his wife Mary and Presiding Bishop Dean Davies and his wife two days later.  It was a joy to prepare the table and a luncheon for President Ballard and these General Authorities and their wives. What a privilege.  I kept having to pinch myself that I could have the opportunity to serve such an amazing group of servants of the Lord--even one of the Lord's Apostles--a prophet, seer and revelator.    I was so touched by President Ballard's kindness and ability to put us at ease from the moment  he set foot in our apartment. He immediately asked about my parents and how they are doing and offered right on the get go to get a picture of us with him "for your daddy!"  How kind was that? And he said "stand here between me and your husband--you'll be the rose between two thorns!"  So cute.  I had the joy of helping President Ballard get a plate of food and sitting next to him with Mike.  Over lunch he wanted to talk about missionary work!  He said if we could just get our members to get on their knees with your missionaries and ask who that ONE is that the Lord has prepared for them to share the gospel with--think about what that would do! Our wards would double in size if each person just shared the gospel with ONE!  He said he was confident as we prayed and earnestly sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost we/our members would be led to them!  When he met with our missionaries it was spell-binding!  His energy was incredible and his desires for them so clear!  He told them that they were "here under the divine direction of the Savior of the World and that all missionaries are assigned by an Apostle to their mission and that those impressions to the Apostles were real.  He told them "you can't just be a teacher--you need to be the GREATest teachers in the world"  because they were called to serve at a time where social media has captured , almost addicted, Heavenly Father's children to keep them away from the gospel.  They don't have much time to think" !  You need to find a pause in people's lives.  Find and teach so the spirit and power of the Holy Ghost can "connect".  Missionaries need to be "wide awake" and alert to have the spirit of the Lord and know what to teach. The Lord has held back "the most bright and most precious to carry the message in this day and time.!"  What is the best door approach? I don't know--but the Holy Ghost knows.  Live worthy so that the Holy Ghost can inspire you!  It shows on your countenance.  Our message can apply to everyone in any circumstance if you are prepared and understand the big picture!   More important what people feel than what they know.  He told them to begin each day with a smile and that when it rains--shout Hallelujah I get to go out and be persecuted for the Lord's sake!  Teach every day. Teach with and for understanding.  Ask questions to be sure what you taught was understood.  If you're having a hard day, pause.  Think about the Savior. You have been called to serve Him. Trust Him!  You will have power from on high.  We bless you with health, strength, courage and knowledge of the gospel, and willingness to go forward with faith and trust in the Lord." I'll never forget him calling MIke and I up to stand by him.  He told the missionaries we'd be called of God to prepare them for their future service in the church.  Then he shared his testimony of the Restoration of the Church of Jesus Christ through the Prophet Joseph Smith.  I felt the literal power of his testimony. I knew what he was saying was true with every fiber of my being.  What a privilege to stand shoulder to shoulder with him as he was bearing witness!  I stand with our prophets and Apostles that this is Christ's church on the earth today, restored through the prophet Joseph Smith for these latter days!  What a privilege to have the "singular" experience of having the acting President of the quorum of the Twelve Apostles, the longest serving General Authority, also Elder Robert Gay from the Presidency of the Seventy, Elder Evans--President of the Asia Area and the Presiding Bishop--leaders of these Quorums all present with us and to sit at their feet and be taught precious truths by them.  President Evans reminded the missionaries "You are an extension of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. You were each called by one of them.  Build up the church wherever you serve!  One scripture quoted by Elder Gay touched my soul from D & C 112:19: "Wherefore, whithersoever they shall send you, go ye, and I will be with you; and in whatsoever place ye shall proclaim my name an effectual door shall be opened unto you, that they may receive my word. "
Mission Picture with President Ballard and Gen Authorities














The joy and privilege of having all our missionaries shake the hands of and Apostle of the Lord and be taught by the other Brethren and their wives was a singular opportunity --so incredible and strengthening.  We nearly floated down to the Chiang Kai Shek Memorial where we took a mission picture on this historic day of all being together with the Lord's Servants.  What a heavenly day!




The following week May 24 we took the opportunity to drive to Taroko Gorge and took Mike's parents with us. What incredible beauty as we drove down the windy roads and up the canyon to Silks retreat. There's a huge Buddhist temple we hiked up to and a family of monkeys we watched who were  wandering around by the river.  The canyon drive is stunning with massive walls of granite grandeur and out into steep cliffs looking down at the beaches and vast ocean.  I shuddered as we drove along these steep edges and looked up to see little hand made rope bridges people could walk across and hike up to!  Mike walked out on one while I held my breath!  Truly jaw dropping to drive through Taroko Gorge--highly recommend it as a Must do for all visitors to Taiwan! Mike's parents and we enjoyed the wonderful  setting at Silks there and after we got Eddie and Win settled in there, Mike and I drove down to Hualien for Stake Conference. We were so touched by the beautiful spirit at the conference and a highlight was hearing their choir sing a special arrangement of "I am a Child of God" written by the Tsai's daughter and directed by Stake President Tsai's wife to include their Aboriginal stake members with Aboriginal language and chanting.  It was so touching to realize as they sang in their native costumes and head pieces that they are the original Taiwan-ren and that we are all God's Children--all brothers and sisters--who are so loved by Heavenly parents.  I couldn't hold back the tears.  It was such a powerful witness to me of God's love for all His children all over the world.  That may sound trite but it is TRUE and I felt so  blessed to meet these brothers and sisters of mine that day here in Taiwan who teach me.  What a powerful truth I learned through the Spirit that day! 

My Birthday was truly memorable--We went and did interviews in Miaoli and the day before a member Sister Pie surprised me, along with the missionaries there in Miaoli who were having their interviews with a cake and b'day candles!  They sang to me and everything!  Soo sweet and such a surprise!The next day we drove out to Keelong for an Ocean baptism of five new members! It was a b'day for them too--their birthday in becoming a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints!  The setting was stunning with the gorgeous jungle cliffs surrounding the cove where the baptisms would be performed and it was a gorgeous sunny day after a week of pouring rain!  As each person walked out into the water with their baptizing Elder, I was so moved.  The waves helped baptize one man and I was a bit worried for a second, but Elder Bell was so strong he pulled him right up again!  The missionaries and members had all fasted and prayed the weather would clear up so they could hold the baptism and their prayers were answered with not just warmth from the sun but an abundance of warmth from the spirit present1!  East Stake president Shum had made it a whole stake activity and rented buses for the stake to come support these new members and get to know them while doing a beach clean up afterwards. I was touched by his talk in welcoming the new members and asking all there to strengthen and support them in whatever ways they would need which would mean being their friend and watching over them.  Love was washing all of us over on this incredible day! 



I'm so grateful for the things I learn from our missionaries as well and especially about Trusting in the Lord and  following the Spirit!    Recently we have had two missionaries whom we have had a lot of concern for: one very sick-with coxsackie virus and one with a tumor in his toe which was miraculously found when he went to get his foot xrayed for a sprained ankle.  The Elder with coxsackie had huge cold sores all around his mouth, in his mouth, down his throat and other painful areas.
  He couldn't  eat or drink because of the swollen tongue and throat! He lost 20 pounds in just two weeks and became very weak. We wanted to cry because of his misery and suffering and he was several hours away on the south side of the island. We prayed and fasted for this missionary who tho he could barely even talk or do anything remained positive and full of faith and would always say to us as we'd call to check in, I'm sure I'm getting a bit better!  His companion was so full of faith too, and took good care to make sure he gave him whatever food he could eat and cared for his needs until finally on my birthday--the best gift i received!!--was the news that this Elder could finally eat a bite or two of food.  He has now returned to full energy and strength thanks be to priesthood power and faith, prayer and good care.  Our other Elder with the tumor is so full of faith it makes me cry as well.  He said to me after we found out he had the tumor and he might possibly have to go home: "Sister Peterson, I know God gave me this tumor for a reason.  I can't wait to find out what it is.  I'm not worried at all!" Such faith!  I told him, Elder your faith has made you whole, no matter what the outcome.  He had surgery here and is recuperating well.  We await  the pathology report, but so far doctors think it is benign and what was going to be a possible six week recovery and a return home/early release scenario has turned into a 7-10 day recovery and staying here to finish the rest of his mission.  We are so in awe of his companion too who stayed in the hospital with him--sleeping on a flat bench.  This naval academy midshipmen said to me when I asked him how he could sleep on that he said: "It just reminds me of the navy! No problem Sister Peterson!"  I am daily in awe of these wonderful servants of the Lord and the maturity of their faith as well as their approach to daily challenges--especially serious and scary ones!  This love of companion for one another and unselfish Christlike ministering is such an evidence of their love, faith and trust in the Lord.



If anything we've learned on our mission it is to "Trust in the Lord and Trust in the Spirit!" which is what our recent AP Elder Dan Smith who just completed his mission shared in his reflections letter from his mission.   Elder shared with us an amazing experience he and his companion had in trusting in the Lord to be led to a family to teach: “I was training Elder Rodrigues and there was a night which we had some time to go finding.  I remember I told my young companion that we’d pray and then go to the first place he felt we should go. After the prayer we went where he felt we should.  We only had time to talk to one person once we arrived there.  That person got baptized a few months later and is now preparing to serve a mission!  From this experience I learned : "Trust in the Lord, Trust in the Spirit!"  Now this same Elder Rodrigues is training a new missionary! This is his (Elder Rodrigues and trainee Elder Nano, both from the Philippines) written personal account of the experience they had in finding a family to teach by putting their "Trust in the Lord, Trust in the Spirit!

"It all started at a Tuesday morning  As usual, we have district council in the afternoon. We live 30 minutes away from the chapel and so it's almost automatic for us to do a study somewhere along the way to the chapel. However, during that planning time, we had a prompting that we should do companionship study at a particular 7/11, not towards the direction of the chapel, and even at the border of our area. We decided to go there. As we biked, it started to rain and we passed by lot of convenient stores. We wanted to stop at those convenient stores to avoid getting wet and save time. Luckily, the spirit was there again, telling us we should go to that particular 7/11, and so we did. We got there, and made sure we looked for our purpose. We talked to some people before sitting down, but none of them had interest. We finished our companionship study, and we still knew that there has to be a purpose. And so we talked to people that weren't there before. We saw this guy, and talked to him about families. Our bikes were parked right in front of him and we had a wild idea to ask him to read the characters written on it; "No amount of success can compensate for failure in the home". He LOVED it. We tried to set up with him, but for some reason he didn't set up. We asked for referrals and then left him with an English tract. Wednesday came, English class time. A new mom walks into our class. During speed dating, I asked her where she learned of our English class. She told us that she was looking for a English class and ganghao her husband gave her the tract. She also shared how when her husband came home the previous night, he was so excited to tell her about his encounter with the missionaries particularly, the conversation about families. Apparently, the Tuesday we first met the dad, he was pondering on the topic of families. They went to church the following Sunday and are now preparing for baptism." "Trust in the Lord, Trust in the Spirit!"

On interviews one of our Filipina sisters shared these life-saving experiences from Trusting in the Lord, Trusting in the Spirit ....Before her mission, Sister Charity Pangan as a college student  got out of her class at 10 o’clock at night. She was very very hungry and wanted to get something to eat. There was a night market within walking distance of her school and she thought she would stop and get something to eat because it would be a half an hour jeepney ride before she would be home and be able to eat there. But she got a strong prompting from the Holy Ghost: "No,  you need to go home right now!" It was hard because she really wanted to eat right then but she obeyed the prompting. She went home ate and went to sleep and woke up the next morning. She noticed on her phone a lot of activity on Facebook and wondered what it could be. To her shock she read that the night market where she was going to stop and it had been bombed right when she would’ve been there and people died there. She was overwhelmed realizing that could’ve been her and that several lives were lost that night. She was so grateful she had listened and had followed that prompting from the Holy Ghost which literally saved her life.  I thought as she shared this, not only did the Lord  have a work for her to do, but because she had developed the gift to recognize and obey the promptings of the Spirit, her life was miraculously spared, and would be many times because of others also who were praying and led to follow the Spirit as well.    
Once when she was a girl living in the Philippines their ward youth went to the temple in Manila by ship. When they came out of the temple it was storming outside blowing really hard and raining as in typhoon conditions. Her leaders said maybe they should wait before getting on the ship and ultimately decided to spend the night there in Manila rather than take the ship back home. This would mean they’d have to find another means of transportation for their whole group but they follow that prompting to remain in Manila. The next morning they learned that the ship they would’ve taken had sunk in the stormy waters. How horrible that would’ve been to lose all those youth and leaders. Again having follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost they were spared.  Trust in the Lord! Trust in the Spirit! 

On Father's Day I was given the opportunity to "Trust in the Lord, Trust in the Spirit!" as well.  Mike and I had been assigned to participate in the South Taipei Stake Conference but only MIke had received a speaking assignment to train in the Sat evening session.  I thought how nice--they don't have time for me in the program! Well on Sunday....I noticed they had a half hour left and it was all for the stake president.  I had the thought come, they have extra time, you may be called on to speak.  Well the spirit is always right!  Next up,...."We'd like to have Ping Jie Mei and Ping Huijhang share brief testimonies with us!"   My heart raced and I thought "What should I say?" and the Spirit said: Share your testimony of Jesus Christ.  (Trust in the Lord, Trust in the Spirit!) That is one topic you can never go wrong expressing testimony of.  So I shared that in America it was Father's Day that day and so I had been thinking with gratitude about my father and especially my appreciation for his unfailing testimony of the Savior. What a foundation of strength his testimony has always been for me.  My gratitude for my Heavenly Father and Savior had increased as well that week as Mike and I read the Come Follow Me reading on Gethsemane and how He pleaded with His Father to Let this cup pass from me--not once but THREE times he begged to not have to go through with the suffering but then submitted His will to the Father's saying "Not my will but THINE be done. " He willingly submitted not just because of His great love for us but FIRSTLY because of the love He has for the Father.  What TRUST He had in His Father and throughout His life --all He did pointed back to the Father, to glorify HIM, not himself. The sacrifice of the Father knowing the agony of His Son's suffering is as hard as to imagine as the pain Christ suffered in Gethsemane and Golgotha. I stand all the more amazed and grateful to be here in Taiwan to help others know they have a loving Father in Heaven and a Savior to lift them and love and save them from the darkness of sin and of death.  

The 29th will mark ONE year on island!   One year ago as I was sweeping out our beloved Danville home and saying goodbye to our dear family and friends, I couldn't imagine all the LOVE and Joy we would be "Swept up" in here in Taiwan.  I still can't believe we get to do this and am humbled every day for the sweet precious time to get to serve with Mike and love these amazing missionaries, members and  the people of Taiwan. It has been the hardest/best year of my life so far but it is glorious to be part of the"most important work on earth" and  I know the next two years will go far too fast!  I have seen for myself that God's promise is real that "I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up!"D & C 84:88. Thank you dear family, friends, missionaries, families of missionaries and people of Taiwan for being those angels! He has enabled me and helped me do what seemed impossible to me over and over again (from getting up and trying to speak to Chinese speaking congregations almost every Sunday, to finding medical solutions for myriads of missionary ailments daily,  to actually driving a car here--which I never thought possible!  and to actually survive being so far from my friends and family.) And I know that what Jacob says in the Book of Mormon is true. (Jacob 5:72) "That  (as) the servants did go and labor with their mights;..the Lord of the vineyard labor(s) also with them" (in the vineyard.) I can testify that this is the Church of Jesus Christ and that He directs His work.  And  I have learned that our Father in Heaven knows what is best.  I am learning that as I trust in His will, He has a bigger plan for our growth and and an even bigger plan to help others grow WHILE helping US grow if we are willing to be a part of it.

留在聖約的道路上! 加油
AI Nimen!



Sister Peterson/Ping JieMei  平杰梅



Monday, April 15, 2019

Easter Feast of blessings --April 16, 2019

Dear Family and Friends,

It's been awhile! What a glorious Feast upon the Word we just experienced (a week delayed) here in Taiwan with the broadcast of General Conference from our Prophet Russell M Nelson and church leaders.  I know that heeding their counsel will bring us great blessings.  I so appreciated the calls to repentance and the Savior's invitation to "Come Follow Me"  I received as I watched and I am so grateful for the love of our Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ that I felt throughout each session thru the music and spoken word. I invite all to partake in that feast and be filled with the Spirit of the Lord.  See www.ChurchofJesusChrist.org and see how General Conference can feed your spirit! The greatest news ever given is HE IS RISEN!
We are are nearing our tenth month mark and things are moving quickly toward a very exciting month ahead with the wedding of our youngest daughter Anne to Chandler Bruce in early May.  We are so grateful for all the love and support of friends and family who have given bridal showers, so much love and words of support. The Bruces are wonderful people and we are so excited to meet them in person! How incredible that they'd be willing to come to Taipei for Anne and Chandler's sealing. All of our children are now coming as well. It will be JOY to be in the temple
together.
                 
In February for Valentine's,  we "loved" attending the interim Mission Leadership Seminar in Hong Kong (such a beautiful city on the water! Loved the "junk" boat ride around the harbor!) and was it so power packed and instructive. Always a lift to be with our Asia Area Presidency and their wives as well as our Asia Area MP's and wives who we've grown to know and love too.  They call it interim because the main one is in the fall and this one is just three days.  We especially loved the instruction by Elder Evans. He  taught us from D & C 107:30 that we need to study Christlike attributes, because as we developing Christlike attributes brings revelation! One of those important qualities we need is to be "Easy to be entreated".   He taught us how important it is to be obedient to what we are asked to do. Are we easy to be entreated? Are we willing to accept counsel and direction?  We will just be asked once.  If we listen and follow we can receive the blessings of that obedience. If we don't listen and resist counsel we get what we want, but we miss what we could have gotten had we been "easy to be entreated." So we came away so excited to embrace counsel of our leaders. We were counseled that the Asia area leadership and missions has too many white faces! We are to get more youth to serve missions and work with more members to train them to take our places! We must grow the centers of strength and the church in Taiwan!   It was a powerful session with Elder Evans that reminded us of what Elder Gerritt Gong pleaded with us to do as well at the Mission Leadership Seminar last year in the MTC.  Asia Area presidency counselor  Elder Meurs taught us to TRBC and to train our missionaries on finding the elect and ask for REFERRALS. It hit me powerfully that if our missionaries are constantly urgent in asking for referrals, they are witnessing of the love they have for all of God's children and of their faith in moving forward to keep finding as a witness of the truthfulness of the message they bear!  Powerful!   Elder Meurs taught us how to break down the doctrine we are teaching with inspired questions, promised blessings, invitations/commitments and scriptures that will lead us in our teaching investigators or "friends" as they are now called. Incredible reminder to to teach the Restoration and memorize the First Vision with Joseph's words.  So important to teach the Atonement of Christ as we teach repentance because he cleanses as well as changes our hearts.  He also trained us on making sure our new Converts have in the first week: a friend, their Aaronic priesthood ordination, limited use recommend with assistance to find family names for temple work, a calling and starting the NM lessons with the missionaries.  We were also reminded that we don't baptize perfect people.  We baptize people who have repented and are coming to church seeking to Come unto Christ.    Elder Homer taught us about the impact we will have on missionaries and how to not just teach them success on their missions but success for life! He said "Obedience is powerful spiritual medicine. It becomes close to becoming a cureall!" So many wonderful trainings I could go on and on.  We have lots of work to do!
Sisters Emma Larsen and Abigail Swanson

So sad to let  Sisters Amelia Phillips and Alesia Love go home! They have changed our mission for good!
Pday introduction to the sisters of our fav restaurant "Golden Chicken Garden"
LOVE is what we feel for this amazing group of departing siter missionaries.  Our sweet testimony meeting with them in our home the night before they left was a heavenly experience.  I thank Heavenly Father for each one of these amazing women and their service and the blessed experiences we've shared with them!

Upon our return we had Zone Conference.  Wow it is always such an amazing time.  We heard testimonies from our huge batch of 11 sisters who are going home.  So sad to say goodbye to these wonderful women who have become part of our lives and whom we hope to keep in touch with.  They all were such a strength to this mission, we just pray to continue the great work they and the Elders are doing here!  We have such amazing Elders as well.  I have to mention the faith of Elder Donovan Bracken--who has hobbled around on infected toes nearly his entire mission--horrible recurring ingrown toenails. He's had countless surgeries and  has continued to labor while suffering.  I asked him how he did it. He said this: "My strength is probably coming from the fact so many people are praying for me! At times I wish it weren't so, but I think Alma effectively sums up my thoughts about it in his 29th chapter: "...I ought to be content with the things which the Lord hath allotted unto me...Now, seeing that I know these things, why should I desire more than to perform the work to which I have been called?...I know that which the Lord hath commanded me, and I glory in it.  I do not glory of myself, but I glory in that which the Lord hath commanded me; yea, and this is my glory, that perhaps I  may be an instrument in the hands of God to bring some soul to repentance; and this is my joy. And behold, when I see many of my brethren truly penitent, and coming to the Lord their God, then is my soul filled with joy; then do I remember what the Lord has done for me, yea, even that he hath heard my prayer; yea, then do I remember his merciful arm which he extended towards me."  Truly this Elder reminds me of the scripture--"How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of them who publisheth peace!"
I loved hearing about miracles in Finding by Taipei West Zone leaders Elder Bateman and Elder Tyler Brown.  I asked them to write down the experiences they shared as they taught. Elder Brandon Bateman shared this miracle:  "Elder Turpin and I were doing daily planning one day in Taitung and we had a wide open day!  Elder Turpin told me that we should say a prayer and ask where God wanted us to go today!  After the prayer Elder Turpin sits up and says "Elder Bateman, we are going to go to Luye today!" I thought he was kidding and laughed a little, but he said he was serious, and I remember not being super excited about the anticipated bike ride of....20 km!!!  We made the 20 km trip up the mountain and into the valley and as we were riding down, we saw a lady in a black beat up old car waving us down!  My companion saw it and he pulled on over!  She asked us if we spoke English, we responded that we did, and she handed us her phone.  Turns out there was a man asking for her credit card information and so we dealt with him because we speak the language and he eventually hung up.  We handed her the phone back and she said thank you probably 100 times and introduced herself as Gao Guan and we started talking to her and introduced ourselves by talking about Jesus Christ.  She said that she had interest and invited us to her house the next day to share! WE arrived the next day to find her waiting for us!  And she was super excited when we taught her about the Restoration and we set a baptismal date that first meeting!  And gradually we taught lesson by lesson, and she came to church week after week, and as we taught, she fought like a lion to over come all her problems with the commandments and 8 months after the initial day contacted, she was baptized at last!  I remember riding back from Luye to head home that night we met her and my companion said to me "Elder, Don't you just feel like that ride was worth it?  We joked that it was a day to remember and we both still talk about it all the time!  And we made a friend for life!  It was an amazing experience for us to witness of receiving revelation, even when it does not seem the most convenient, those are the days you go to bed realizing that it was worth it!  Because every step"or pedal" is worth the Salvation of just one soul!"

Elder Brown shared this miracle: "One night we had an open night with nothing planned and Elder Raymond and I had a feeling to go knocking doors on the outskirts of our area.  That night we kept praying and following the spirit to know where to go, which house to knock, what to share, talked to people on the streets.  And we just had no success.  It came down to about time where we had to head back.  So we got on our bikes and started heading back.  On our way back we saw a man pushing his scooter on the side of the road.  We had a feeling to stop so we pulled over and asked if we could help him push it.  He accepted which was awesome! So we got off our bikes and we started to help him push it.  We pushed for a little then he stopped, put the kickstand down and showed us a kick-start and started trying to kick-start it.  But he was pretty old and didn't have enough strength.  So Elder Raymond got over there and started kicking and start pushing the gas.  Eventually we got it started and he was so happy! He opened up his seat to grab his helmet and we saw that he had a Bible.  As soon as I saw it I had a feeling to let go of the gas.  So I did and the scooter died again. :) So we talked with him and shared about the Book of Mormon, he said he would have interest but he didn't have a way to meet with us because his scooter broke. So we exchanged numbers and we tried to get the scooter started again but it wouldn't start.  Elder Raymond was very inspired and suggested that we say a prayer with him.  So we told him that he wanted to say a prayer and promised that if he had faith it would start and he could get home.  We prayed and it started on the first try after! He had the biggest smile on his face!  But he didn't want it to die again so he left.  We got home and  he called us and said that he got home safely and that it was such a miracle!  He then set up for that Tuesday!  A couple months later he was baptized!"

These missionaries' faith precede the miracle of finding the elect and every story and every individual found is an inspiration!
 

 In March Elder and Sister Evans came for a mission tour--our first one!  WE were so nervous but wow what an amazing experience.  The Evans are so full of love and of the spirit.  They ministered to us--our family members--and our missionaries in so many ways. I can't talk details, but I know the timing of this visit was too perfect for special needs that he met and for ways he ministered to us in timely ways to our family members back in the States for it to be coincidence.  God is so merciful and kind and His servants are truly on His errand to minister to His children in ways so specific and personal that they know it is God's hands.  Incredible!   We were so proud to introduce all our sweet missionaries to them.  We feel such a bond and deep love for each one. When Elder Evans spoke during the conference he said something I will never forget, that explained why we feel such a love for them.  He said that we made covenants in the pre-earth life to come here together at this time to serve in Taiwan!  He said that is why we have a familiar feeling one with another.  I wept like a baby and when I was called upon to speak I told the missionaries "that explains it!" I haven't been able to explain how much we love these missionaries and now we know, it's because we have loved them for a long time.  Elder Evans was so kind to also inquire about my parents and offered to go see them when he went back to SLC for General Conference.  He was good to his word and FTimed with me here from my parents' living room!  What a tender mercy and joy to see them looking so happy and well and enjoying the wonderful and kind ministering visit of Elder Evans whom they had met briefly at the end of their service in Japan in the Area Presidency plus he also knows my brother Kevin from when he was stake president and Kevin was a bishop in his stake.  Too small of a world for this to be coincidental.  These are special connections the Lord orchestrated for our comfort and support at this time when we are so far from family and I'm deeply grateful. 



Beautiful recent convert Aileen Ho
A big part of our mission is to build the church in Taiwan--meaning the membership and leadership here.  It is a joy I hadn't anticipated because of the language barrier for me.  But as I try to speak they respond with such kindness and warmth for any attempt great or small.  It is a privilege every time I get to speak to a ward or a stake conference and share my testimony because in this way I can be a missionary and try to build and strengthen the members here in Taiwan.  I just learned of a great miracle of a recent convert I was called upon to respond to during the Elder Whitney Clayton  Q & A fireside who was struggling because her family was giving her a hard time for joining the church.  I felt impressed to tell her she is a pioneer and commend her for her courage to join the church. I shared about my ancestor who joined the church and her mother wasn't happy but promised her she would never leave Christ .  I told Aileen that I felt also to tell her that if she would show love and look for ways to serve her family, that was a way to teach them about Jesus Christ and what our church teaches.  The miracle is that now both her brother and mother are going to be baptized!!!!  This brings me sheer JOY!  I just love Aileen and her sweet example to her family is amazing!  She sent me the sweetest text:  "I take my mom and my brother to church and watch the conference. (General Conference).  They really like the talks and the music! And then my mom had a lesson with the Elders today and she (set) a baptism goal!!!! I'm so happy! That's unbelievable! My family is really change! Just like a dream.  I remember what you said at the conference last year being a pioneer is really hard and not easy but you made a great choice.  Just keep going, help your family, let them feel I love them, that God love them and my love for God will do the missionary work....I think I did it. I am really grateful that God let me came to this church...I realize I am loved, I am not alone.  We are the child of God.  His words can help us, we can use his words help other people."  I am so grateful for these amazing sweet people we get to meet and who are such great examples of love and faith.
One of my many sweet translators--and this one is a former missionary from the California Oakland mission! Yay!
                                                       
We loved returning to Judong ward (where we came for their first ward halloween party) and speaking in their Sacrament meeting by invitation. I talked about Spencer's admonition to Stand in Holy places and how I felt I was standing in a holy place when I stood in his bedroom after he left on his mission. I thought about all the times he had prayed, read his scriptures or got ready for seminary or church or mutual in there.  I thought about how each small daily action had led him to the temple and to the ability to serve a mission and how our home had become a sacred place of learning with church support.   The bishop and his wife Margaret expressed their love and appreciation for our messages and  are so sweet to us each time we see them. They said "You and president are part of us! Made us feel so happy! " I complimented Bishop on his loving ward family and he said: "Ping JieMei, -we have unique members--they don't have much temporally but they have a lot of faith!".  I teared up because I could feel the faith and the love in this wonderful ward! I just love these dear Saints in Taiwan  Their open armed love for us is humbling and so touching every time!

The highlight of April so far has been the baptism on April 6th of 92 year old Brother Ye Chong Tong, retired Admiral of the Taiwan Navy. 



Meeting this couple has been one of the sweetest experiences of our mission so far.  I related last blog entry about Admiral Ye's amazing story of his driving all across the country from Rhode Island to Utah to go see the Salt Lake temple because of his curiosity about the church which his two comrades in the navy were members of and whose example of keeping the Word of Wisdom was impressive to him.  He has had many years of attending church with his wife and having many sets of missionaries invite him to be baptized.  He has had miracles of healing and of finding things which were lost and heavenly dreams and manifestations of the divinity of this church and of the Savior inviting Him to come unto Him.  He was invited to be baptized most recently by his stake president with visiting Area Authority 70 Elder Kanakham from Thailand.  And to everyone's joy, he said Yes!  And he asked if President Peterson would baptize him! When he came up out of the water he was overjoyed!  An those in the audience couldn't help themselves from clapping for JOY!  Our four year old granddaughter Rose told her parents after the baptism that as she watched Brother Ye be baptized "I felt a really strong spirit in my heart!!!" We all did too!!!  IN his beautiful testimony following his baptismal ordinance he invited all his friends who had come to also be baptized.  He said he'd like to see someone "even older" than himself be baptized:)  He told everyone why he was baptized is because he knew God is real and that this is His church! We were so blessed to be able to participate in the baptism with Mike's parents singing an providing beautiful music. We were so happy that our son Spencer and his wife Mckenna and their three girls were able to come as well. The next day we were able to attend Brother Ye's confirmation and he was blessed that he would live to be able to be sealed to his wife and do many temple ordinances for his family. What an amazing journey and now he can at last go inside the temple and receive all the blessings that he has longed for for so many years since he made that long journey from Rhode Island to Salt Lake.

And speaking of heavenly blessings! Our hearts are full of joy for the sweet angel Lucy Michelle who was delivered safely into the arms of Clark and Ellee and sister Charlotte on March 9th in NYC. I have loved showing their video of introducing Charlotte to her new baby sister to our missionaries and I feel the love of God's plan of happiness every time I do.  I hope you enjoy it too: https://youtu.be/udreblkjxUg



As I mentioned at the beginning, we are looking forward to a heavenly event on May 10th with Anne and Chandler being sealed in Taiwan temple.  This is the joy that we hope to help bring all families as they come unto Christ and receive the blessings of the gospel.

We thank you with all our hearts and want you to know how much we appreciate your love and sacrifices to help our family and help us so we can do this blessed service and work here in Taiwan.  You are the promised angels that surround us on our right and on our left and bear us up!   We know and bear testimony that families are forever and the greatest gift of the gospel--all made possible because of HIM whom we celebrate this EASTER--even Jesus Christ.    Every blessing we have is BECAUSE of HIM.  Wishing you all A blessed and a Christ-filled Easter feast from Taiwan!

Love, Shelley
Ping Jie Mei



I am overcome with gratitude for my angel sisters in Danville and my dear family who threw a gorgeous shower for Anne and for their generous support.  I felt bathed in their love as well!




Thank you dear Taressa, Debbie, Teresa, Jen, Mary, Linda, Carrie, Marji, and friends for hosting such a memorable and beautiful event for Anne! Thank you Debbie for FTing me in to the party!

P.S.  I have to add that having Spencer n Mckenna and their cute girls here in Taiwan is so fun! We are so grateful for time with them and sharing special experiences together!





I also love skyping with Lar to see Grahammy as often as I can! 






And we love watching the Marco Polos of Matt n Mindy's family that help us feel their love!